Michael & Danielle

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My Son and his girlfriend Danielle











                                                       

Julie Richards

An Aquarius Me to you Bear

A hobby of mine was collecting Me to you bears. I have over 400 ceramic bears

                                   

Julie Richards

Character

The ABC's of CHARACTER

It is agreed that there are 6 pillars of character that are composed of six ethical values. These are

• Trustworthiness
• Respect
• Responsibility
• Fairness
• Caring
• Citizenship

The following character trait are from Character First!(tm).

• Alertness – Being aware of what is taking place around me so I can have the right responses.
• Attentiveness – Showing the worth of a person or task by giving my undivided concentration.
• Availability – Making my own schedule and priorities secondary to the wishes of those I serve.
• Benevolence – Giving to others basic needs without having as my motive personal reward.
• Boldness – Confidence that what I have to say or do is true, right, and just.
• Cautiousness – Knowing how important right timing is in accomplishing right actions.
• Compassion – Investing whatever is necessary to heal the hurts of others.
• Contentment – Realizing that true happiness does not depend on material conditions.
• Creativity – Approaching a need, a task, or an idea from a new perspective.
• Decisiveness – The ability to recognize key factors and finalize difficult decisions.
• Deference – Limiting my freedom so I do not offend the tastes of those around me.
• Dependability – Fulfilling what I consented to do, even if it means unexpected sacrifice.
• Determination – Purposing to accomplish right goals at the right time, regardless of the opposition.
• Diligence – Investing my time and energy to complete each task assigned to me.
• Discernment – Understanding the deeper reasons why things happen.
• Discretion – Recognizing and avoiding words, actions, and attitudes that could bring undesirable consequences.
• Endurance – The inward strength to withstand stress and do my best.
• Enthusiasm – Expressing joy in each task as I give it my best effort.
• Faith – Confidence that actions rooted in good character will yield the best outcome, even when I cannot see how.
• Flexibility – Willingness to change plans or ideas according to the direction of my authorities.
• Forgiveness – Clearing the record of those who have wronged me and not holding a grudge.
• Generosity – Carefully managing my resources so I can freely give to those in need.
• Gentleness – Showing consideration and personal concern for others.
• Gratefulness – Letting others know by my words and actions how they have benefitted my life.
• Honor – Respecting those in leadership because of the highter authorities they represent.
• Hospitality – Cheerfully sharing food, shelter, or conversation to benefit others.
• Humility – Acknowledging that achievement results from the investment of others in my life.
• Initiative – Recognizing and doing what needs to be done before I am asked to do it.
• Joyfulness – Maintaining a good attitude, even when faced with unpleasant conditions.
• Justice – Taking personal responsibility to uphold what is pure, right, and true.
• Loyalty – Using difficult times to demonstrate my commitment to those I serve.
• Meekness – Yielding my personal rights and expectations with a desire to serve.
• Obedience – Quickly and cheerfully carrying out the direction of those who are responsible for me.
• Orderliness – Arranging myself and my surroundings to achieve greater efficiency.
• Patience – Accepting a difficult situation without giving a deadline to remove it.
• Persuasiveness – Guiding vital truths around another’s mental roadblocks.
• Punctuality – Showing esteem for others by doing the right thing at the right time.
• Resourcefulness – Finding practical uses for that which others would overlook or discard.
• Responsibility – Knowing and doing what is expected of me.
• Security – Structuring my life around that which cannot be destroyed or taken away.
• Self-Control – Rejecting wrong desires and doing what is right.
• Sensitivity – Perceiving the true attitudes and emotions of those around me.
• Sincerity – Eagerness to do what is right with transparent motives.
• Thoroughness – Knowing what factors will diminish the effectiveness of my work or words if neglected.
• Thriftiness – Allowing myself and others to spend only what is necessary.
• Tolerance – Realizing that everyone is at varying levels of character development.
• Truthfulness – Earning future trust by accurately reporting past facts.
• Virtue – The moral excellen ce evident in my life as I consistently do what is right.
• Wisdom – Seeing and responding to life situations from a perspective that transcends my current circumstances.

Have you taken the first step to living a More meaningful, purpose filled life?

Have you taken the first step to living a More meaningful, purpose filled life?

 Life is a Journey

Chinese philosopher Lao Tzu once said, “The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step,” and so it is with the art of purposeful living. Make a promise to yourself today to take that first step toward a more meaningful, purpose-filled life for a more rewarding, fulfilling future.

How to live your life with purpose

• First find your strengths. What do your friends and family compliment you on?
• What inspires you? What are your natural talents?
• What are you Passionate about?
• What are your Personal Values?
• How can your Personal Values serve others?
• Look at what you're passionate about and then decide on your Goals in life.

When deciding what your life purpose is, Look at your values.

Your Personal values will help you identify your goals. You goals may help you to see what you're passionate about. What makes you happy and contented. Once you have identified these, the next step is taking One step forward to living your life with purpose

What are your personal Values?

Personal Values determine Our Goals and Outcomes in Life.

The goals we choose, are the outer expression of our Personal Values. 

Personal Values are a major motivating force for people because they categorise  how people attach meaning and importance to things they value.

My Personal Values are:

• Living a Life of Honesty and Integrity.
• Being Dependable and on time.
• Helping Others with personal needs 
• Living a life obtaining knowledge. 
• I constantly strive to learn and grow as a person.
• The Believing family is of fundamental importance.
• Educating oneself and sharing this knowledge
• Maintaining a healthy lifestyle.

Our Personal Values reflect who we are.

A person's identity and personality are held together by their Values and Beliefs

"Its not hard to make a decision when you know what your values are" Ray Disney  

I believe Honesty is the best policy and Trust has to be earned.



Choose your personal Values from this list.

Knowing who you are & what you stand for. Understanding your core values & beliefs - then you can start building your own personal unique brand

It is important that you identify your core values, but it is even more important that you live by these values

Here are some words to describe my Core Values.

• Dependable, Reliable, Loyal, Committed,Open Minded, Honest,Efficient, Innovative,Adventurous,Fun Loving,Positive, Optimistic, Inspiring, Passionate,Educated, Loving,Nurturing and Compassionate.

other values include

• Creativity,Forgiveness,Hope,Kindness,Knowledge,Self-reliance, Independence,Spirituality,Truth,Wisdom,and Personal Growth.

I honour my Commitments and My word.

I try to bring value to people's lives. I would like to think people are better off from knowing me.

Here is a link to a site with Four hundred value words http://liveboldandbloom.com/05/values/list-of-values


I hope you have enjoyed reading this article, and it has helped Your find your Core Values


Thanks for visiting
Julie

How to live your life with purpose

How to live your life with purpose

• First find your strengths. What do your friends and family compliment you on?
• What are you Passionate about?
• What are your Personal Values?
• How can your Personal Values serve others?
• Look at what you're passionate about and then decide on your Goals in life.

When deciding what your life purpose is, Look at your values.

• Your Personal values will help you identify your goals. 
• You goals may help you to see what you're passionate about.
•  What makes you happy and contented.
•  Once you have identified these, the next step is taking One step forward to living your life with purpose

My Personal Values (What are your personal Values?)

Personal Values determine Our Goals and Outcomes in Life.

The goals we choose, are the outer expression of our Personal Values.

Personal Values are a major motivating force for people because they categorize  how people attach meaning and importance to things they value.

• Living a Life of Honesty and Integrity.
• Being Dependable and on time.
• Helping Others with personal needs 
• Living a life obtaining knowledge. 
• I constantly strive to learn and grow as a person.
• The Believing family is of fundamental importance.
• Educating oneself and sharing this knowledge
• Maintaining a healthy lifestyle.

Our Personal Values reflect who we are.

A person's identity and personality are held together by their Values and Beliefs

"Its not hard to make a decision when you know what your values are" Ray Disney  

I believe Honesty is the best policy and Trust has to be earned.

Knowing who you are & what you stand for. Understanding your core values & beliefs - then you can start building your own personal unique brand

Here are some words to describe my Core Values.

• Dependable, Reliable, Loyal, Committed,Open Minded, Honest,Efficient, Innovative,Adventurous,Fun Loving,Positive, Optimistic, Inspiring, Passionate,Educated, Loving,Nurturing and Compassionate.

other values include

• Creativity,Forgiveness,Hope,Kindness,Knowledge,Self-reliance, Independence,Spirituality,Truth,Wisdom,and Personal Growth.

I honour my Commitments and My word.

I try to bring value to people's lives. I would like to think people are better off from knowing me.

Here is a link to a site with Four hundred value words http://liveboldandbloom.com/05/values/list-of-values

Chinese philosopher Lao Tzu once said, “The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step,” and so it is with the art of purposeful living. Make a promise to yourself today to take that first step toward a more meaningful, purpose-filled life for a more rewarding, fulfilling future.

Live your life with Purpose

Living your life with purpose

"Live your life with purpose. Focus on your blessings, not your misfortunes. Focus on your strengths, not your weaknesses. Be yourself and don't wait for the approval of others. But most importantly, have a positive and humble mindset no matter what situation you are in. Count your blessings, not your problems, and you will realize how beautiful your life truly is." 
— Troy Amdahl

I am Blessed.

I am blessed!

My Miracle son Michael. Holding My Miracle Grandson Max.

My son Michael hates me calling him My miracle child. I believe this to be true, because a month before he was conceived a month after I experienced my second ectopic pregnancy. If I hadn't experienced an Ectopic pregnancy and everything was normal then I wouldn't have been able to conceive in the December as there would have been another child occupying my womb..

I am truly blessed to be a
Mother and Grandmother

 I wouldn't change Michael for the world. We are close even after all our battles and disagreements.  At times I am sure he chose me to be his mum to keep me on my toes, to challenge my view of life and to show me No matter what life throws at us, Miracles can still be performed. It was tough being a single mum, but through Perseverance and Love, I survived the battle of wits, the power struggles and I made it through the other end a stronger, more educated person.

 He thanked me the other day for Being a tough mum who made him go to school even when he didn't want to. As Education is high on my values list. I wouldn't give in to his everyday bad bellies and headaches. (which occurred daily after his father walked out of his life)  He believes if I hadn't encouraged him to go to school and made him do his homework that he wouldn't be in University today.
He didn't always want to go to school because of the other children making fun of his lisp, and his fears that I might not be here when he returned. His fear around the age of six. But once he got to school. he was never any trouble,

In the secondary school, He was a grade A student, He played rugby for the school and for  the Aberdare valley Rugby team. He played the double Bass.

 At home, he loved to spend hours playing his game console. He is very competitive. As he grew older he would spend a lot of time on his P.C.

He also had a newspaper round before school.

Michael and Max (to the left) 

I believe that Kris and Robin will see Max as their Miracle baby also. As sadly they lost a child prior to his conception.. He has a very placid and jolly temperament and he also a very intelligent child. He is so very much like his dad when he was young. I love visiting him as he always has me smiling, My inner child just wants to comes out to play the moment I see his eyes light up from seeing me. I just love being silly with him and leaving all the worries of the world, and my health issues at the door before each visit, making my time with him Memorable, Fun and happy.
He loves his cuddles and the raspberries I blow on his belly. He also like to catch the bubbles that I blow. HIs favourite toys are the educational train and pull along ball that i bought him.

He has spent many hours playing with this train.
He also likes to play his fisher price pull along ball

I love My three Boys, Kris, Michael, and Max. They all make Me Happy and Proud.